Reflection is so important because it teaches you so much about yourself. Today I reflected on my past and I became very upset with myself ! Why had I dumbed myself down around others my whole life? I sat there trying to figure out if it was out of not wanting to hurt another's feelings. … Continue reading Reflection can change the trajectory of your life by what it reveals to your heart.
Have you been faced with a situation where you are wondering if “letting go” is the answer? I’ve been there and although tough sometimes it’s necessary!
When I was younger I thought that relationships were concrete and everlasting. That my blood family would be my crew, my ride or dies, my forever. Then I grew up and, like many of you, life threw some major curve balls at me. One thing I learned from all those struggles was that nothing in this life is everlasting.
I was 33 years old laying in a hospital bed certain I was going to die. I had that same certainty 14 years earlier that my life was going to be happily ever after. The perfect life with the white picket fence, a handsome hubby, 2.5 kids and a dog. Boy was I wrong! What … Continue reading Certainty is like the lottery. Your chances of getting it in this life…slim-to-none!
Ah, the old game of tit for tat. This game has been playing couples against each other as long as we all can remember. " He doesn't do that right!" "She always complaining." "I do everything around here!" "You are never here or available." Does this sound like a typical conversation in your house? Then … Continue reading News Flash: NO ONE WINS!!
I sat there looking around wondering to myself how I got here. Why was I having more medical problems? I mean is this all life has to offer? You get old, you get ill and you die? Seriously, these were the thoughts running through my head and then they called my name and I snapped to. "The doctor will see you now" the nurse said. It felt like I was walking the green mile into that back cold clinic room.
Why is it when you say no to someone they immediately ask for a reason? As if to say you owe them an explanation for your decision. Ummm, excuse me, but when did we become so comfortable with explaining ourselves? Do you ever catch yourself doing the. ummm I didn't know I had to explain … Continue reading The Power of Saying…NO!